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The Love of Money is the Root of All Kinds of Evil

This passage from Scripture has been one of the things that held me back from desiring and really reaching for more income.  In fact, in 2016 I *finally* bougt a Starter Bundle of essential oils that I was longing for for YEARS and I was triggered when I saw that their motto was ”wellness, purpose, abundance”

I truly saw the idea of financial abundance as  a path towards evil.  As if only certain people could handle large amouts of money without turning evil.  I figured I wasn’t one of those people.

You can check out how I have been able to love money as much as I love chicken parmigiana, tiramisu, massages, horses, travel and swimming.  Click the image to catch the view on Instagram.

The truth is, loving money (like you do your favorite color, food and place on earth is VERY VERY different than a harmful obsession and lust for money.  You can actually tell pretty easy when you’ve moved from a love that feels like fun, gratitude, humility, peace, joy….to an obsession or lust that feels like scarcity, fear, lack, obsession.

Your actions become different too, when you love money in a way that’s healthy and positive you see ways money can help people and causes.  When you lust for money in a way that’s harmful you look for ways to hoard your money, keep it out of other people’s hand and ways you can cut corners even if it is hurtful to others.

The fear of loving money is part of what holds so many female entrepreneurs back from earning what they‘re work is worth, from being able to invest in their future, support their families well and access peace of mind.  

Fear that we aren’t worthy of it, fear that we’ll be corrupted by it.  These are big concerns and it can be debilitating to move from fear to love.  From scarcity to abundance, from hopelessness to hopeful.

This is EXACTLY why Martina, Tanya and Ihave created the Bad Ass Money Masterind, BAMM for short.  BAMM will show you exactly how to shift your mindset about money, handle your triggers surrounding money, release old money stories and realign your energy to welcome more financial abundance.

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I talk about a few things today, and honestly I probably riffed a little and got off script. Check it out here.

I also know that some of us just love to read, so if you aren’t trying to win a free prize stick around here and I am going to share with you why I believe the Prosperity Gospel is very different than an Abundance Mindset.

In my own words, though you can check out wikipedia and see what they say over there, the prosperity gospel is a set of beliefs that God blesses people who meet certain criteria.  

1. I find the prosperity gospel to be problematic because the implication is that when you suffer, struggle or don’t feel prosperous that you have somehow displeased God.  I think that’s contrary to the notion that Jesus’ sacrifice is what makes us pleasing to God.  

This line of thinking creates shame which separates us from God and neighbor.  When we experience shame, it’s incredibly hard to be vulnerable with others.  We tend to shrink back and step away from life-giving connection.

Of course, if you are in a community that is big on the prosperity gospel, but uncomfortable with nuance….it is reasonable that you would not seek connection.

Shame has no place in the church.

2. It is also problematic because it absolves the individual of participating in economics that elevate all people to abundance.  What I mean by this is that if I  have done well and I  am pleasing to god and I am prosperous; then you should try that too.  

I don’t mean that people are not responsible for themselves, but that every person on the planet participates in an economy that has corruption.  Capitalism (or oligarchy as its really unfolding in the USA), Socialism and Communism (btw communism is different than socialism in case you forgot). 

Folks who follow after Jesus seek justice.  When we look at Jesus’ treatment of marginalized folks (who generally were limited in their economic opportunity as well) and review the judgements in the “minor” prophets we see that God hates injustice.  He hates poor treatment of foreigners, widows, orphans and judges not only other nations—but his people as well.  His chosen people got consequences for oppressing others.  

The problem wasn’t that they had wealth, it was that they used unjust scales and their power to harm others.  So when I say the prosperity gospel in practice absolves the church of their complicity in oppression I mean that we don’t, often enough, see people using their abundance, opportunity, influence and power to dismantle unjust systems like patriarchy and racism.  

In fact, in the white evangelical church, we see patriarchy, ableism and racism finding a cozy home. I am not the expert on these topics, but there is plenty of information available to you with a quick internet search

An abundance mindset is a set of beliefs that resources including money are available to every person on the planet.  It’s a positive belief that we are not in competition with others to ”get ahead” is the idea that we can all do better, have more and it does not mean we oppress others together it.  

While an abundance mindset is not connected to any particular religious system, it can easily look like the prosperity gospel in that it is very frequently associated with the word manifestation.

I am not going to talk about the law of attraction, because well— my kids will be needing dinner soon.  But manifestation and the LOA do carry some overlapping principles with the prosperity gospel.  

An abundance mindset is different, in that it is simply the belief that we are not limited by our circumstances in obtaining economic prosperity and influence.

I acknowledge that an unconscionable number of people have been systematically economically oppressed across cultures and woefully so in the USA.  

I acknowledge that even when laws changes, practices take time to shift.

I acknowledge that people do have real opportunity limitations on their money story.

I acknowledge that the oppression of mostly white men has created a set of limiting beliefs for a great many people.

I acknowledge that this happens in the church too.

I acknowledge that when I decide systems don’t define me, that I get to choose my beliefs, I have agency and I can not only change my economic situation but I can use my influence to create a world I want to see.

Where actually everyone has the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.  

I personally reject the prosperity gospel and embrace and abundance mindset because that is a way to live out my faith and values well.

Now, remember—this is a five day series and I am dong a giveway over on Instagram, so go watch the video and share your thoughts.