First:  Understand that Montessori is an “aid to life” more than it is a “method.”


Read the words of Margaret E. Stephenson in the foreword to “The Secret of Childhood” by Maria Montessori.


“She did not care for the word ‘method’ which denotes in our minds a system of schools and educational institutions. Over and over again she insisted that we must think in terms of “help to life” if we are to understand what she was trying to make people see.”

Montessori as an aid to life allows for the child to unfold and develop naturally.  Just as one child begins crawling at 8 months and another at 11 months, their academic development unfolds at its own pace as well. In Montessori, we fall these “sensitive periods”


There is a beautiful chart on Age of Montessori that shows a visual of these sensitive periods.



Movement: birth - 15 months

Social & Emotional: birth - 2.5

Math Patterns: birth - age 3.5

Order: 6 months - 2.5 

Small Objects- begins around age 1 and continues for several years

Vocabulary: age 1 onward 

Sensory Learning: birth onward.  

Letter Shapes & Sounds: ages 2.5 - 5 

Music: age 3 onward 

Math : age 3.5 onward

Reading: age 3 onward

Writing: age 3 onward


“A child may not be interested in an activity because he has yet to enter that particular sensitive period of development.”  -Marnie Craycroft 

The beauty of Montessori is the beauty of homeschooling. 


You have the opportunity to nurture your child’s development based on their inner drives.



Second: You Do Not Need To Recreate a Classroom


There is a strong pull to re-create the Montessori classroom experience in your home. The Internet is full of beautiful images of homeschooling families using traditional Montessori materials. There’s nothing wrong with us but it’s also not necessary. In fact, I made this mistake.


The materials can be very helpful for teaching specific concepts, but most of the time we can find an adequate, possibly even better, substitute in the home environment. 


For example,  while teaching your child the concept of quantity, instead of having huge, costly wooden red rods, you could use Duplo’s instead. 


Instead of using Metal Fraction Circles to teach, you could use measuring cups.


Third:  Review Scope and Sequence before purchasing anything.


It is commonly asked what Montessori curriculum a family should purchase. If you’ve asked this question in a social media group before, then you know that the response is generally “no such curriculum exists.”


There are many teacher albums that you can purchase, which can be used to re-create a Montessori classroom experience. They involve step-by-step directions on lessons and often come with a scope and sequence.  The scope and sequence shows you approximately when you would introduce the concept to a child and what lessons might come before and after that lesson.


I suggest that you wait before purchasing any albums.  I suggest this because it can be very overwhelming.


When you begin by looking at a big picture of what is covered in a three-year cycle, you notice lessons that you won’t need to re-create in a home environment because they’re already happening. 


There are dozens of PDFs, materials available to you, but if you don’t know which order they go in you may waste your time and money.


I don’t want you to do that.


I want you to be confident that you are capable of guiding your children through their sensitive periods and aiding their development.


Are you tempted to check off boxes in a traditional education away? Or are you trying to re-create a Montessori classroom? Or are you just playing overwhelmed by all of the options?


Do you want a Montessori coach? I would love to help you create your unique Montessori Homeschool.

Stefanie Melo, Holistic Life and Faith Coach
I’m Stefanie and I am here for you, mama. 

I had expectations of feeling purpose and fulfillment in motherhood. Instead, I experienced trauma, anxiety, depression, isolation and a crisis of faith. 
Feeling like I couldn't be the mom I wanted to be to my five children, I began a journey of deconstructing and challenging everything I thought I believed. It was scary and messy. It felt like heresy! It also led to a deeper faith in Jesus, more peace, and a wholeness I didn't know was possible. 

Today, I am based in Arizona where I Montessori homeschool my 5 children ages 2-10 with my husband, Hernando. I am alligned with my calling as a feminist Jesus lover and a holistic coach to help mamas who are at any point in their evolving journey of faith to reclaim a little more sparkle! 
I coach women to understand and integrate their beliefs, thoughts, and emotions to create a life that offers more clarity, more peace, more joy — a life that is simply better.
 
I offer a unique approach to life coaching, bringing a wealth of professional expertise including: productivity, planning, massage therapy, infant bonding, fertility enhancement, birth work, postpartum support, breastfeeding support, youth and children’s ministry and Montessori education training.
 
If you are looking for support that acknowledges your mind, body, spirit and human need for community, I am the coach for you!

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